Kerry's Blog 2007 Jan-Sept

Who Am I... (profile from "Kerry's Bio" page)
Wednesday, October 3, 2007
I am not sure what has been wrong with our hosting software, but this is the first blog I've been able to post in some time. Before I left for California it was giving me trouble, and did so abain yesterday, but then "decided" to work today.
I am so glad to be home. It was a good time in California- preaching and spending time with my family, but there is truly NO PLACE LIKE HOME.
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Thursday, September 20, 2007
Disagreement can be a very tense thing. It seems that it usually brings anger, resentment, and a loss of relationship. Why is that? Why do friends, when they strongly disagree, allow those disagreements to influence their feelings for each other?
I think it has something to do with human nature. When we strongly believe something, we feel compelled to defend it. In doing so, we strongly desire to be a passionate and articulate spokesperson for our cause, so that we might "win others over." This, in and of itself, is only natural and fitting. We will be in a sad state indeed when we become, as many would have us be, a nation of cowardly conflict-avoiders.
The problem then is that we allow passion to turn to anger. Why? Why would I be MAD at someone because they are mistaken? Why would it make me ANGER because they won't surrender to my view? These emotions may therefore tell us something about our true motives. Is our defense of whatever positions we hold really from a heart of conviction, or is it from a mind of pride?
Remember, Jesus had great conviction... but also GREAT SELF-CONTROL!
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Wednesday, September 19, 2007
Sorry... I've been, as my friend Jim Gardner says, "taking a blog sabbath."
I'm adding a new blog to my "links" today. My little brother Jarrod Williams just started a new blog and also a religious discussion site. He is a youth minister in southern California and has some very spiritual insights.
This has been a low energy week for me. I haven't felt very well (allergies and sinus) and seem to have more meetings and appointments that usual. Please pray that I'll get more "umph" by the weekend.
Thanks for being such a great Christian community.
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Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Today is September 11th. It has become on of those few dates that will, as FDR proclaimed after Pearl Harbor, "live in infamy."
As I drove to the office this morning, I heard the song, "Where were you when the world stopped turning?" It caused me to think back upon that morning 6 years ago. We were staying with some friends in Idaho at the time and just getting ready to take our kiddos to school. What a shock.
Here we are now six years from the day. America is still here. We haven't suffered any more major attacks. But will we ever feel as safe again?
Probably not.
Have a blessed day.
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Monday, September 10, 2007
It must be in the water?
Or perhaps it's global warming?
Whatever the reason, I've decided that we are getting more stupid in this country. One could almost imagine the unheard "tick...tick...tick" of our IQs decreasing.
This morning I heard on the radio about a McDonald's worker in Georgia who was arrested on criminal charges for spilling salt on a policeman's burger. They sent the burger to the Georgia crime lab for analysis (No... I'm NOT kidding).
I have also been hearing McGruff the crime dog commercials about "bullying." The scenario describes a girl being told she can't use the bathroom with the "cool" kids. That happened to me EVERY day as a kid, and my parents didn't have to get involved. They weren't compelled to protect me from the "emotional scars" of mean kids. I had to deal with it, and in the process, learned some valuable lessons about life. Kids dealt with kid stuff. McGruff told us to stay off drugs; He didn't encourage our parents to shelter us from everything. Do we want kids not to be equipped to deal with their own problems? What ever happened to parents who lovingly encouraged kids to stand up for themselves and, in the process, find confidence and self-esteem?
Oh well... perhaps my ideas are the product of a bygone era. But I KNOW one thing... It was a BETTER time!
Have a good day.
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Thursday, September 6, 2007
In response to my blog on Tuesday about raising a teenage daughter, my good friend Coy Thorp (who also has a girl the same age as mine) from California sent me the following thoughts in an email. He graciously granted me permission to share them with all of you.
It's really hard because, as a parent, I want to be able to mold her identity, but she also needs to find out who she is and needs to take ownership of her faith. I've noticed that, over the years, the boundaries I set for my kids have changed and grown. That's happening less and less as they get older. I foresee a day (not too distant, I might add) that those boundaries stop growing altogether because they have hit a brick wall. This wall represents my furthest "freedom," or that point where I have said, "You go this far, but no further." I am doing this out of my love for them and my need to provide some protection and sanity in, to quote your Dad, a world gone mad. It's at this wall that respect is decided. If our kids love us (which they undoubtedly do) and see that we really are only doing what is genuinely in their best interests (which is harder to recognize, I admit), they will respect this boundary and not cross it...TOO much. It's unrealistic to expect them to not push beyond...didn't we? But they must always recognize where that wall is and, out of respect and love for us, decide that they will stay inside of its protection.
Thank you Coy. As I struggle through this strange new land (father to a teenager), it is nice to know that I do not walk it alone.
May God bless us all as we strive to do right by our children.
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Wednesday, September 5, 2007
Please take a moment to read Dwight Whitsett's blog for today. Dwight has given his life to the training of preachers and has a very insightful entry detailing 10 reasons why preachers leave the ministry. This is particularly important at this time because of the drastic shortage of preachers we have in the brotherhood. The last count I heard was that we are losing 4 for every 1 that becomes a preacher in the Churches of Christ. Why? Sure, it can be a hard job. Yes, it can be stressful. But why wouldn't young men want to be ministers of the Gospel. As an addition to Dwight's list, let me tell you 10 reasons why, from my life and experience, I LOVE being a Gospel Preacher:
1. My job makes a difference... an ETERNAL difference.
2. I spend my days opening the words of God... my JOB is to read the Scriptures and hear the words of God!
3. The sparkle in a sinner's eye when he sees the Gospel for the first time and asks, "May I be baptized?"
4. The satisfaction of looking into people eyes and speaking from my heart.
5. The freedom of being able to follow my conscience in everything I do.
6. The blessedness of working and living in the midst of believers.
7. The beauty of a tender heart as a person walks down the aisle during the invitation song.
8. The joy of being able to give people real answers in a world filled with lies.
9. Thousands of friends who will be my friends for eternity.
10. God, through His Church, has provided for my family's every need and blessed us beyond what we will ever deserve.
I could go on all day! It is shocking to me that there are even some parents today who discourage their sons from being preachers. If you do so... you rob him of a glorious opportunity. I wouldn't trade it for all the world. In the words of an aged preacher, "If I had a thousand lives to live... I'd be a PREACHER in every one of them!"
Have a great day.
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Tuesday, September 4, 2007
How was your holiday weekend? Our family took some time just to stay home and do some projects. I've been working to finish our basement since we moved in a year ago, and I am starting to see some results. Yesterday I put up some insulation as a sound barrier between rooms. That has to be the most miserable, itchy stuff in the world to work with!
I was thinking this weekend about how fast my kids are growing up. My oldest daughter is now a teenager and it scares me to death! How do I keep a positive relationship where she'll want to talk to me but still be firm enough? What do I let here do and how strict should I be about where I'll let her go? How do I lay down rules to guide her along the right path without being overly strict? What punishment should I use now that she's older? These questions nag at me... and they don't even address the subject of BOYS!!!
My prayer is that God will bless me in my inadequacies. I think that parenting is a lot like the marine corps... "It's not just a job... it's an adventure."
Take care today.
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Tuesday, August 28, 2007
Conscience... what a nagging companion. It can cause a man to be miserable when the world says he should be happy, or to sacrifice untold things to be true to his heart. How important is this integrity of the heart? What does it say about a man if he will compromise his deepest convictions in order to "keep" the good things in his life?
My grandfather used to say that the only real thing we inherit is our good name- that it is our only true possession of value. And once it is lost, it is VERY difficult to recover. To him, his good name and his integrity were EVERYTHING!
If we "give-in" and fail to stand up for our deepest held beliefs, do we really have any beliefs at all? What does it say to our children about compromise? Does it teach them that it is ok to compromise our values if the stakes are too high? Does it communicate to them that principles are nothing more than words to be discarded when the going gets tough?"
These questions must be answered by everyone at some point in his/her life.
Have a great day.
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Monday, August 27, 2007
I was given this picture of me and my slithery friend I found in our kitchen 2 weeks ago. He actually looks much smaller in this picture than he seemed in our kitchen!
I was thinking this morning about a friend who is struggling in his life right now. My heart is breaking with him! I have felt so much personal grief and agony as I have walked with him through his pain. I do not doubt the necessity of it all- we are told by Paul to "bear each others burdens" and we sing "when one has a heartache we all shed a tear." What I doubt is my own ability to help. How much of a comfort am I really? How valuable is the advice I give? I struggle with these questions. Why... I love my friend and I deeply want to help. Pray for me that I will point people who come to me for spiritual advice down a path that leads them to God's will for their lives.
Have a good day.
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Thursday, August 23, 2007
Ok... I'll rescind yesterday's complaining about Seth's football practices. One of my good friends sent me an email to remind of the universal truth- "There is no whining in football!" Well said brother.
Because of Lenora's new job, our schedules have changed slightly and it is now my responsibility to take the kiddos to school in the morning. I have actually liked the change, as it starts my day a little earlier than before. After John Smith's lessons during Renewal, I committed to make some tangible changes to be more spiritual with my children. So, as a start, I began praying with them before they leave the car in the mornings. Simple thing huh? No big deal, right? My kids took to it well, but what surprised me were my own feelings. The first couple of days I felt... uncomfortable. It absolutely didn't make sense. We pray together all the time- meals, restaurants, church, sporting events, and Lenora always prays with them at bedtime. So why did it feel weird? I guess because it was different! It was a break from our routine... "Out of the norm."
Upon reflection, my feelings have taught me a valuable lesson. Even simple changes to improve our walk with God can be hard to achieve. Satan wants us to remain comfortable with our routines.
Well, I intend to continue this practice every day that I take them, and it is feeling more natural now.
What can you do today "out of the ordinary" to improve your walk with God?
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Wednesday, August 22, 2007
Is it possible to both love and hate something at the same time? I'm starting to feel that way about football. I love the game. I miss the excitement of Friday Night lights back in Texas and doing the Radio program for our local High School team. But Seth is playing now and these practices are MURDER! Three nights a week in 103 heat sitting for 1 1/2 hours in the sun. Imagine what it's like for the players? Actually, Seth hasn't complained yet. Drenched with sweat he still seems to be having a great time. His first game is this Saturday in Town Creek where he will start as a linebacker (I think). I'm sure that seeing him play will make it all worthwhile.
I have gotten some feedback about Renewal and I appreciate your responses. Everyone seems to have benefited from the weekend and had a good time. To God be all the praise.
Have a super day.
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Tuesday, August 21, 2007
My thoughts lately have often settled upon the wondrous grace of God. I love the Lord's Church with all of my heart, and appreciate so much all that I was taught growing up. However, sometimes I find my heart plagued by an old legalism that has been deeply planted there. I find my faith motivated by fear. I look at the weaknesses in my life and feel a sense of dread as my emotions wonder if God will find me acceptable to Him.
What is strange about these feelings is that my head disagrees with my emotions. I believe the promises of God, that I can be absolutely assured of my destiny if I but "walk in the light (1 John 1:7). I know in my mind that I am not justified based upon how good I am. Yet I still worry. I still feel like my soul is up in the air and I'm waiting until judgment day to see "where I land."
What then are the practical applications of this "amazing grace?" How can I ever come to feel it as well as know it? I'm not sure. Perhaps I'll never be able to fully de-program my sensitivity toward my shortcomings, and in some ways, I don't want to. My sin should break my heart, but not because I'm afraid of hell-fire, but because it breaks His heart!
Thanks for listening to my ramblings... Have a great day!
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Monday, August 20, 2007
What a weekend! Renewal 2007 was such a rich blessing. Steve Cummings and John Smith both had outstanding lessons, as did our local preachers- Chris Kemp, Ervin Jackson, Kenny Barfield, Matt Heupel, and James Farris. Thank you all so much.
Saturday night was a wonderful time of great food and fellowship. So many people worked behind the scenes and we can't thank you all enough.
If you missed parts of Renewal and would like to listen to the messages on CD, they will be available soon through the office. Talk to Jean at church or email us and we will get you on the list.
For those of you who attended, I would like to have your feedback on the event. Email me with your thoughts and suggestions.
Thanks again for making it all a success. I love you Sherrod Avenue!
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Tuesday, August 14, 2007
Last night proved to be one of the most exciting nights EVER at our house. At around midnight, Lenora went to the kitchen (I think to get some water) and the next thing I heard was a shattering scream followed by, "Kerry.... KERRY... GET IN HERE!!!" The problem? A two foot snake was stretched out on our kitchen floor.
Bravely (Ha) I pulled out a samurai sword (no I'm not kidding... yes, I'm a nerd) and slowly stalked my prey in defense of my family. After a 5 minute dance of sword and serpent, I finally had the beast trapped in a 5 gallon garbage can. Since his coloration was a little suspect (copperhead?), I took him this morning to Mrs. Swiney at Mars Hill Bible School. She took one look, reached in, and picked him up. As it turns out, he was a harmless grey rat snake and even I was eventually holding him (I guess he decided to let the whole samurai sword thing slide). Now I have him here in the office and plan to release my new friend into the wild on my way home today.
Isn't life an adventure?
Don't forget that RENEWAL 2007 in this weekend. I'll see you there!
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Monday, August 13, 2007
What do you do when you feel strongly convicted about something that compels you to action? It doesn't sound like the answer to the question is hard to determine. Just act... right? The problem is that circumstances are rarely so "cut and dried." Usually the necessary action will lead to conflict, hurt feelings, and even sometimes the loss of relationships.
I am always shocked by how much difference one day makes. When I initial hear about something it usually makes me very upset and even angry. My righteous indignation swells and I'm ready to charge off like a bull in a China shop and "deal with it." But if I wait, the next day brings different feelings. My indignation is the same, but I am slower to act and more thoughtful about how to proceed. The patience (which is always so difficult at the time) tempers the anger within and allows for a more amicable, and henceforth a more biblical, outcome.
I pray that the Lord helps me to "bite my tongue" more often.
Have a great week.
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Thursday, August 9, 2007
It's 8:30 am on Thursday morning and I have only one thing on my mind... RENEWAL 2007.
The day fast approaches. Please make sure to sign up for the dinner on Sunday if you haven't already. Work crews will be organized in the next few days, so please contact Greg Swindle if you are willing to help.
Although this is the most stressful time of preparation, my excitement is also building. We have a GREAT SCHEDULE for you (click here to see the RENEWAL schedule). I am confident that it is going to be a huge success!
To God be all the praise and glory!
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Wednesday, August 8, 2007
Today is the first day back at school for me and the kids. I'll be teaching my first class in about 45 minutes, and I am surprised at myself about how nervous I've been. It's not that the material is difficult... I could talk about Jesus forever. I just don't want to be stale or too difficult. Please keep me in all of your prayers today.
It was so hot yesterday that Underwood cancelled Seth's football practice! For those of you that don't live in the Shoals, you can't possibly understand the significance of that. Underwood is the most serious youth sports organization imaginable. They don't cancel anything! That tells you how hot it's been here.
Isn't it funny how we complain about the things we once begged God for? I absolutely HATE the cold, and I remember thinking, "I would take 100 degree heat for the rest of my life to escape this cold." Yet now I'm complaining about what I requested! How patient and loving God is!!!
Have a blessed day.
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Tuesday, August 7, 2007
Recently, I hurt my foot (sparring in Karate... dumb me) and suffered with a limp for several days. As the pain began to subside and the healing process began, I marveled anew at the complexity and wondrousness of the human body. Tiny cells are immediately deployed to repair damage sustained by the body. These cells are so microscopic that they can't be seen by the human eye, yet they can repair and replace faulty body parts and take it back to its original state (most of the time).
How could anyone deny there is a God in the face of such evidence? How could such marvelous design be so perfectly functional without a designer?
And unbelievers call Christians ignorant!
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Monday, August 6, 2007

Wow... what a weekend. Our Karate class took seven competitors to our second tournament and did wonderfully! Our school won a total of 12 trophies (3 second place & 9 third places) and every competitor placed in at least one division. Congratulations guys! Who says only the big schools can do big things???
Click here for more tournament pics
I am busy planning for Renewal and am very excited about the responses we are receiving from local congregations.
At supper last night with some dear brethren, I couldn't help but reflect upon how pure laughter is among friends. To be able to sit and enjoy the company of people that you love, while allowing the cares of life to drift away with the laughter is truly splendid. I'll say it again... there really is NOTHING as SWEET as Fellowship!
To all of you we have laughed with through the years... Here at Sherrod... in Early... Pleasant View... Meridian... THANK YOU. You have enriched our lives!
Have a blessed day.
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Wednesday, August 1, 2007
Here we are... August 1... Fall is almost here. School starts for our kids at Mars Hill in 7 days and those of us on the faculty (I'll be teaching one Bible class this year) start on Monday. Seth just got his helmet and pads for football. Reann is at cheer camp this week. I can see it already... the BUSY SEASON is almost upon us!
As you get everything in order for fall, please don't forget RENEWAL 2007 on August 15-18. We have been working frantically to make it the best experience possible. The speakers and entertainment will be great. I hope everyone at Sherrod Avenue will attend and help make it a great success!
May God bless you all today.
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Tuesday, July 31, 2007
What a wonderful time we had at the "Tahoe Family Encampment" last week! The scenery was magnificent, the spiritual messages were inspiring, and the Christian company was priceless. I enjoyed seeing so many old friends (I would list them here but there are too many and I would surely leave someone out). My classes were well attended as I spoke on "Spiritual Warfare," and some dear friends from here in Alabama made the trip with us. It was a perfect week.
Then we got home.
While we were gone a water line broke just outside my house and flooded part of the basement. I spent Sunday afternoon and most of the day Monday working with the plumber to get it fixed (which meant digging a 4+ foot hole in hardpan ground). Today we finally have water again.
Isn't it strange how the best and most spiritual of time are often followed by some adversity? Could it be Satan trying to rob us of joy? I have come to believe that it is! He, in his bitterness and jealousy, wants to strip away all of the good emotions we feel that bring us just a little closer to heaven. Well... I wasn't going to let his steal my joy. God blessed me with a quick fix to Satan's interference.
Praise be to God!
Have a super Tuesday.
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Monday, July 16, 2007
Although I believe it to be one of the most needed virtues today, Compassion is also one of the most painful emotions. It causes a person to empathize with the plight of another, which brings with it all of the negative emotions and fears. But those aren't the worst part. The real kicker is the frustration of not being able to change it! To feel someone's hurt and be utterly powerless to change it is... well... it's... AARRRRGGGGG!
Perhaps this is a reason why some people become so cold hearted? Maybe the "powerlessness" is more than they can take? It is easier not to feel... to shut off the world emotionally. In this regard, a hard-heart could be a form of defense against more emotional pain. Like the ancients would erect giant walls of stone to protect their cities, people today erect emotional walls of indifference to defend their vulnerable hearts.
I've been tempted to do that. I HATE all the misery in this world! I HATE people coming to me for help, and not always having answers for them! I HATE seeing people hurt and knowing that the hurt is going to continue! I HATE IT ALL!!!
But I only have two choices: shut myself off emotionally, or continue doing what I can. To continue in compassion means being vulnerable, and a vulnerable heart will become wounded.
But wounds leave scars.
And scars on my heart is proof I had a heart in the first place!
I'll take the scars.
Have a great week.
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Wednesday, July 11, 2007
I have been frantically preparing all week for my trip to Lake Tahoe at the end of next week. I will be speaking every day at the Tahoe Family Encampment, and also for the Placerville Church of Christ on Sunday the 22nd. It is always one of the highlights of my year.
The keynote I was assigned is entitled, "The Greatest Commandment," about loving God above everything else. Although it seems like a rather easy assignment, it is actually become very challenging. It may be easy to TALK about loving God more than anything or anyone else, but actually DOING it... that is another thing altogether.
In truth, I don't love God as I want to, but maybe the fact that I WANT TO says that I someday will? I realize that may not make a lot of sense. I suppose that a statement I heard by Jim McGuiggan expresses it best, "I don't love Him like I should- I don't want to love Him like I should- but I do WANT to WANT to love Him that way!"
Have a blessed day.
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Tuesday, July 10, 2007
Is your week starting off well? I hope it is.
If you haven't expressed your views on the poll posted to the left of this page, please do so.
On Sunday I was told that we will be streaming video of our worship services on this website within the next few months. Therefore, people will soon be able to click onto the sermon download page and choose from either an audio or video format.
Sorry my blog is so short and "commercialized" today. Have a great Tuesday.
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Monday, July 9, 2007
This is a big admission for me:
I've decided that I'm no longer young... I'm middle aged! There... I admitted it. I faced the music. The aches and pains of my thirties are here and I think they are here to stay.
What I don't know if how I feel about it all. Do I care? I know I don't like the aches and pains, but do I really dread growing older? I know that I certainly don't like the reality that I now have less time to get done all the things I dream of accomplishing. I don't like that my kids are no longer babies and are growing up way too fast. I don't like feeling tired more quickly, and not having the endurance I once did.
But I do look forward to some things... some very special things. Although my kids will be gone soon, THEY will one day have kids, and I will get to have babies again that I can SEND HOME. I look forward to time alone with Lenora. I appreciate the wisdom and patience the years have taught me- I now hold my tongue when I would have "let it wag" in my younger years. All in all, maybe middle-age isn't all that bad. In reality, it is just another section of this glorious roller-coaster road of life.
Have a good walk on the road today.
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Thursday, July 5, 2007
How was your 4th of July? Ours was so very nice. We spent time with friends and had a great time swimming, riding motorcycles, and lighting fireworks.
Kenny Barfield gave a wonderful lesson Tuesday night on the "Lie" of "separation between church and state." In his masterful way he related a mountain of facts (one I remember is that 20+ of the Declaration of Independence's signers had theology degrees) which cause one to conclude that the founding fathers were very religious and always intended America to have a Christian ethic.
Why do you think people today are so afraid of religion? Christianity in America has never forced itself upon individuals. Even in our most moral of times we still had atheists and agnostics. They were never burned at the stake or strung up for their lack of faith. In fact, it is Christian values that have insured the freedom of individuals to believe what they choose. Jesus never sought to force His will upon anyone.
I think society is so anti-Christian because they don't like anything or anyone who has the "audacity" to say that anything or anyone is wrong. Christianity may not try to force people to do right, but it DOES tell people when they are doing wrong!
What do you think is the prominent reason for the anti-Christian sentiment in America today? Please give me your answer in the poll posted to the left margin of this page (yes... I'm poll-crazy because I just learned how to do this... indulge me please).
Have a great day.
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Monday, July 2, 2007
It is so nice to be home. Our family had a wonderful time on vacation all last week in Washington D.C. There is no place like it. All the movies and TV shows don't do it justice. I was astounded by the grandeur and magnificence of it all.
Today I am playing "catch up" like crazy. "RENEWAL 2007" is just around the corner (August 15-18) and so much is left to be done. I am also traveling to Lake Tahoe for the Tahoe Family Encampment later this month to speak. Therefore, time is "pressing at the door."
Therefore, I will make today's blog brief. Have a great week.
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Thursday, June 21, 2007
After struggling for my life in the sea of file compression (well... it felt that way), I finally got a reasonable size version of our new "Renewal 2007" TV as on the website. Check it out. You can also see the poster for renewal.
Starting next month, we will be making a concentrated effort to give the Lord's Supper more attention in our worship here at Sherrod Avenue. I have posted a poll (located in the left margin of this page) and would like all of our Sherrod members who read this blog to give me your opinion about how we now do the Lord's Supper. I believe the communion is the most sacred aspect of our worship, and must never become mundane to us. It is so easy to rush through the emblems to save time or preserve the format of the service, and in the process to forget how very special the privilege is. There is never a time when I have more potential to feel the love of God then when I partake of the emblems. They are a powerful reminder that I mean everything to Him- enough that He would go through it all that we might be reunited.
And that is something I certainly want to remember!
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Tuesday, June 19, 2007
It rained all night in Florence Alabama. Yeeee-Ha! For those of you living in other locations, we have been having a very dry spell and needed a sustained rain.
Our VBS to going great. We had 88 kids last night and hope to break 100 tonight.
I am very excited about our new television commercials airing on the local cable TV stations. Sherrod Ave recently purchased some high-quality audio/video equipment, and we are now able to produce material of a very respectable quality. I'll try to get some samples of the commercials on the website in the near future (I'm having trouble reducing the file sizes).
Have a great day.
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Thursday, June 14, 2007
Not long ago I was engaged in a conversation with some brethren about a particular court case in which the defendant recieved a seemingly light sentence for the crime of which he/she was convicted. I agreed that the punishment handed down in no way made up for the wrong that was done. Indeed it seemed very light. But what suprised me was the intense anger which radiated from my friends because of it. They wanted justice (understandably so), and were very upset because the punishment didn't fit the crime.
It caused me to think about the situation in light of what true justice really is. No, the punishment would not "make up for" the wrong that was done. But could any punishment? Can any wrong be undone- regardless of what is done to the one who did the wrong?
My own thoughts on this matter started to bother me, because I have never been "soft" on crime or wrongdoing, and have railed against "bleeding hearts" on many occasions. But... maybe it's because I'm growing older... I'm not as incensed by mercy as I once was. In fact, I cherish the thought of mercy more than I ever have, for I have been the recipient of so much! My wife has shown me mercy every day of our marriage by extending love I did not deserve and seldom appreciated. The church has shown me mercy year after year by enduring my immaturity and patiently allowing me to grow into a better man and minister. And my God... I live and move and have my being because of His mercy toward me! I preach that we all have hope BECAUSE He has NOT given us what we deserve.
What does all this mean in the real world? I'm not sure. I'm glad that I do not sit behind a bench and have to make decisions. I want society to protect the innocent from those who would hurt others. But is there a place for mercy? I'm certainly glad the judge of the universe thought there was!!!
If you have thoughts on this, please let me know (kerry@sherrodfamily.org).
Have a good day.
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Wednesday, June 13, 2007
I am excited for my brother, Jarrod Williams, and his family, who just arrived at their new home in Victorville, California. Jarrod is the new youth & family minister for the Victor Valley Church of Christ. His move puts my parents, my sister, and my brother all in California with us in Alabama. Is it hard? Sometimes. Is it worth it to preach at Sherrod Avenue, live in "Jerusalem" (my pet name for Florence), and have our kids involved in a great school?
WITHOUT A DOUBT!!!
To all of you Sherrod Avenue people... I hope you appreciate how special it is to live here and to worship in this place. We have all been very blessed.
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Tuesday, June 12, 2007
Forgive me for the lack of blogs over the last few days. I had a health issue to contend with over the weekend (yes.. I'll be ok) and it threw everything off for a few days.
Please check my favorite links page. I added a link to Dwight Whitsett's blog. Dwight is a long-time missionary and an extremely deep thinker. I think you'll enjoy his thoughts along with Jim Gardners.
This last two weeks have been a time when the "list" (of stuff that has to get done) became very long. Today, I finally crossed the second to last item off, and realized how ridiculous my frustration over these weeks has been. It all got done. Everything worked out. Yet, I failed miserably at the command, "Be anxious for nothing." When am I going to learn from life's constant lessons to just "go with the flow?"
In reality, we are control freaks! Things bother us (or at least me) because we can't control them. I want to be master of my universe. And, even though I am quick to espouse my trust for God's lead, I have a hard time letting Him "take over."
I hope I am learning. Maybe next time I'll remember writing this blog before I get anxious?
Probably not... But perhaps.
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Wednesday, June 6, 2007
Today I feel... blessed. I heard a song on the radio today called "moments." In it, a young man contemplating suicide is confronted with a homeless man and, in the face of bigger problems than his, realizes the blessings he has had in his life. I've got problems. You've got problems. But how do our problems stack up when compared to our blessings???
Thank you Lord.
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Tuesday, June 5, 2007
2007 is marching on. Here it is June and it hardly feels like the year is almost half over.
Our Karate class got back on schedule last night with 14 in attendance. My work schedule and baseball season have interfered through the spring. We have lots of room for new students and there is no charge, so if you want some exercise and fun, come join us. There is a sub-page on this blog that gives our upcoming class schedule.
Today I will be speaking to the Florence Civitan Club about the joy found in service. Serving doesn't come natural to us. In fact, it seems that we work so hard so that one day we will be served and no longer have to serve others. But Jesus tells us that the way to greatness is not a path toward less service, but toward MORE ("He who is greatest among you will be your servant"). Isn't it insightful how the world's values are usually EXACTLY OPPOSITE from the Lord's?
Find some service to render today.
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Monday, June 4, 2007
I hope you all had a good weekend. Ours was somewhat slow but very relaxing. After church last night ALL THREE OF MY KIDS had friends over to stay the night. But Lenora and I are still here this morning! (They were all actually very good.)
Over the weekend I was engaged in a conversation concerning the relationship Christians should have with Christ-followers who have different beliefs- particularly beliefs on "big issues" like salvation. Whenever I consider this, I am always of two minds. Never should we insult or degrade the faith of someone else because we feel they have not yet learned the "whole truth." Whatever faith a person has developed is better than no faith at all, and it would be unconscionable to treat them as an complete unbeliever.
However, to do as many and dismiss all differences as inconsequential would be to disregard the singular nature of truth, and thereby lay aside the importance of putting God's Will first in our lives. Yes, there are some things that matter more than others, but that doesn't mean that the "less important" things don't matter at all! We must love the Word of God because we love the God of the Word; and in that, we cannot afford to compromise it.
Therefore, I intend to continue as I have for many years now, and treat people with as much respect as I can, while being careful to stand up for and never compromise the truth of God's Word.
Let me know what you think- kerry@sherrodfamily.org
A good book on this subject is "Who is My Brother" by F. LaGard Smith.
Have a good one.
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Thursday, May 31, 2007
What a relief! I am glad to say, that after 2 months of problems, we finally have sermons back online on this website. Due to the illness of one of our good brothers who was helping us with taping and CD production, and the need for better equipment, our sermon reproduction has been impaired since March. But as of yesterday... WE'RE BACK. Check out the sermon download page.
The summer promises to be an exciting and meaningful time for my family and Sherrod Avenue. Here are some events that we will be involved in this summer:
1. Sherrod Avenue's Special Summer Class Series- All the adults will enjoy special topics & guest speakers on Wednesdays @ 7pm throughout the summer.
2. Sunday AM Parenting Class- All the parents of Jr High and High School kids will be taught by the elders on practical parenting in 2007.
3. VBS- "Super Heroes: Behind the Mask" We look forward to another great VBS this year.
4. 8th Annual Tahoe Family Encampment- Lake Tahoe, California... we will enjoy meeting old friends there as we do every summer.
5. Shoals Renewal- Our 1st area-wide workshop event is promising to be an incredible spiritual event.
6. The Heritage Christian University "Big Event" with Lee Greenwood- The HCU annual fundraising banquet will host Lee Greenwood this year @ the Marriott Shoals.
I hope you are as excited about the summer as I am and will plan on taking in as many of these events as you can.
Have a great weekend.
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Wednesday, May 30, 2007
Summer is in full swing. Seth went to Basketball camp today and my girls are looking forward to church camp at wiregrass. We are planning our vacations and working in the garden (which is a little "puny" at the moment). I wonder how long it will be until "cabin fever" sets in?
Isn't it strange how even good things can sometimes be over done? When I was a boy, the first weeks of summer break were heaven, but by the end, I was stir-crazy with boredom.
We must always be on guard for spiritual "cabin fever." As Jesus wrote to the Ephesians in Revelation 2, He said that, although they were still "going through the motions" spiritually, they had "lost their first love." Simply put- they had gotten bored with Jesus! Is that a danger for us? In Florence AL., where we have 39 churches of Christ, a strong Christian school, and a Christian university, I think it can be. We can forget how blessed we are and allow the "sacred" to become "common" to us. Therefore it is important that we always do as Jesus instructed the Ephesians, and "remember" our love for Christ. Have you told Jesus you love Him yet today?
I just did. Now it's your turn.
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Tuesday, May 29, 2007
How was your weekend? We had a fun time with the kids on their first weekend of summer break. On Saturday we just goofed around and on Sunday, after a great Lord's Day, we had our Bible class over for a fun time of "Balderdash" (It's an awesome game). On Memorial Day we just worked around the house and grilled out. It was a good time with family.
Today is back to work and reality.
Do you feel blessed? I know it is a broad question, and most of us would say "yes." But do we ACT like we feel blessed? Nori (Lenora) and I were reflecting recently on how blessed we have been, and I realized that my daily attitude doesn't always reflect the gratitude to God I feel in my heart. Simply put... I complain too much. I let the little annoyances of life distract me from being thankful for the really important things.
I intend to do better!
What does your attitude look like day by day???
Have a "grateful" day.
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Tuesday, May 22, 2007
Sorry about missing my blog yesterday... It was a crazy one around my house.
Over the weekend Seth and I attended another Tennessee Valley Vipers game only to see them barely get beat by the Wilkes-Barre/Scranton Pioneers. Their record now stands at 4/3... not bad. Check them out at http://www.vipers.tv/
The highlight of the weekend was Sunday afternoon as 86 "Golden Saints" (65+) from Sherrod Avenue joined us for an open house at our home. We had a great time. Lenora and I are reminded again and again of how blessed we are to work with such a wonderful church family.
A dear brother passed away this morning, and as I saw his beautiful family gathered together with love and support, it made me reflect upon the truly "big things" of life. The stuff doesn't matter. The values that the world promotes are so hollow and empty. All that matters is relationships... with God and with people. They are the only things that will survive into the next life. I hope I can pay more attention to the things that really matter in my life!
Give someone you love a hug today.
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Wednesday, May 16, 2007
We've all heard the saying, "If you really want to help a man, don't give him a fish... teach him how to catch fish for himself."
In church work, I see people everyday who are in need of help- either physically, emotionally, or spiritually. Many of these people are struggling to find a way to heat their house or fill their stomach and are desperate enough to ask anyone they can to help. We help some, but the truth is- we don't help near as many as ask... there are just too many!
I am glad we are a congregation that cares. Our people volunteer for soup kitchens, clothing giveaways, and bring boxes of groceries to the food pantry. I am so proud of their hearts of compassion, and I'm glad we do all the things we do. But sometimes I wonder if all our efforts are little more that temporary band-aids? The same people we help need help again the next week. It seems that many will never crawl their way out to find a better life.
But the question is, "How can we teach people to fish?" The reality is that everyone is giving out fish- the government, churches, relief organizations- but who is re-educating the generational poor so that they can someday enjoy a better life? In truth, it is just too hard. To totally re-educate a person would take a GREAT DEAL OF TIME and effort. And, simply put, we would not even know where to start!
Well, I suppose the "band-aids" do at least show that we care. But I pray that someday we can find ways to teach people to fish, and thereby help them not only to a full stomach, but also to a full life!
If you have any thoughts on this, I would love to hear them. Email me @ kerry@sherrodfamily.org
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Tuesday, May 15, 2007
Sunday night I spoke to the Mars Hill class of 2007 about graduating and entering "real life." I spoke of relationships and their importance... with God, Brethren, Yourself, Family, and the world. It caused me to reflect upon the reality that all life is relationships. What else is there? The only reason people care about money or things is to impress PEOPLE. In fact, the only thing in my life that will last beyond the grave is the relationships I've built. In that sense, relationships are the only REAL thing in this world... the rest is simply temporary!
Shouldn't this reality change our priorities?
What relationship do you need to work on today???
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Monday, May 14, 2007
We all had a super time at the SACOC golf tournament on Saturday. About 30 men participated, and I really enjoyed getting to know some of you better.
How is your week starting off? Mine seems to be starting really well. It seems we have more to do this week than can get done... but such is life in 2007. We have the Mars Hill awards ceremony tomorrow night, a church party on Friday, and our open house for the "senior saints" on Sunday afternoon. It should all be fun.
Sherrod Avenue people... thank you for all of the kind words of encouragement you have given me concerning the "Heaven Sermon Series" which we concluded last night. I am glad so many of you benefited from the study. In three weeks we will begin an extended study of 1 & 2 Thessalonians on Sunday nights.
Have a super week.
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Thursday, May 10, 2007
Recently, when speaking with a young man considering the ministry, I reflected on my life and work. I remember the two years we spent at Sunset School of Preaching (check out their promo video @ www.sibi.cc/lets_go.php?show=1) when we were newly married. We had a wonderful time! We then moved into ministry... the REAL world... and have had an amazing life. I've made more mistakes than I care to recount, but the church has been so abundantly patient. Yes, there have been hard times. Yes, some brethren have, at times, been unkind. But overall, we have been treated with dignity, kindness, and respect. We have been blessed to work with GOD'S people... the BEST people in the whole world! It has all been extremely rewarding.
To quote an old preacher's heartfelt admission: "If I had a thousand lives to live... I'd be a preacher in EVERY ONE!"
Thank you brothers and sisters. Thank you Lord Jesus!
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Wednesday, May 9, 2007
Last night I was able to get some things done I had been wanting to do for a while. It seems that some of the things dearest to my heart take the longest to get around to. To get them done is a good feeling.
Do you feel the air... Summer is coming fast! It's getting hotter and the days are getting longer. The kids are getting restless with school and looking forward to the long break. And most of all... Motorcycle season is upon us. I'm looking forward to warm wind in my face!
What does your summer look to be? Do you have any vacations planned?
Whatever plans you have... I hope it is the best summer of your life!!!
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Monday, May 7, 2007
I hope you have all enjoyed Steve Diggs and the "No Debt No Sweat" seminar. I have found it to be both entertaining and informative. Remember that the seminar continues tonight @ 6:30 with the "credit card nuts n' bolts" discussion.
Seth and I traveled with friends to Huntsville for the Tennessee Valley Vipers game vs. Green Bay on Friday night while the girls had 12 middle-schoolers @ a slumber party for Reann. Seth and I were so glad to escape! The game was great. The Vipers pulled off the win but it was close down to the last seconds as the Blizzard threatened to score in the last minute of play... way to go Viper defense!
Lenora has a new job and is very excited about it. I think it will be a perfect fit for her talents and personality.
I hope your week begins well.
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Wednesday, May 2, 2007
I sat in my car and listened to a song yesterday that I had heard but not paid as much attention to. It said (forgive me if I forget a few words):
"The Lord knows I'm a lucky man. God's given me a pretty fair hand. I've got a house and a piece of land... a few dollars in a coffee can. My old truck's still running good. My ticker's ticking like they say it should. I've got supper in the oven... a good woman's lovin'... and another day to be my little kids' dad. I'm a lucky man!"
How true are those words? With the exception of the wisdom of storing money in a coffee can (sock drawers are better!), who could argue with the blessings most of us receive?
Sometimes sitting in the car listening to the radio can be a very moving experience.
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Tuesday, May 1, 2007
Can you believe it's already May?
I went to the doctor yesterday. There isn't anything all that wrong (excluding the usual problems... overweight and such), it was just time. We spoke of medications, aches, and pains. Every time I leave the doctor I think about all of the sick and hurting people he has to encounter every day and try to give them hope. Doctors are very special people.
Like I do after every such visit, I also decided to lose weight and exercise more... to live healthier. It made me think about the fear we all have of being sick... really of dying. I feel it, but I have no reason to. I absolutely KNOW that I am covered by God's awesome grace and that my destiny is secure (for I know my heart and my life), yet I still feel the fear. Perhaps my heart hasn't embraced what my head has determined to be true? Isn't that strange- that a person can know something yet still doubt it with his emotions? Well... such is, no doubt, to be human.
Try today to feel peace in God's abundant promises.
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Monday, April 30, 2007
What a day yesterday was! I was happy to be back in Sherrod Ave's pulpit again for the AM lesson, but the highlight was last night when the Mars Hill High School & Jr. High Chorus groups had their final concert of the year here at Sherrod. The music was heavenly. The young men did the worship service and then we were blessed with some phenomenal singing.
Thank you Kenny Barfield, Joey Derr, and Mar's Hill!
This week the office will be a buzz as we prepare for the "No Debt No Sweat" seminar with Steve Diggs coming Sunday & Monday.
Have a good week.
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Thursday, April 26, 2007
Last night, as I concluded the meeting at Second Creek, I asked, "If you were to die today, do you know where you are going?" The question is very sobering to me. Many brethren will answer with a half-hearted or doubting answer like, "I hope so." But 1 John 5:13 says we can KNOW we have eternal life.
The problem is that we don't FEEL saved. We are fully aware of our own weaknesses, and we know we do not deserve God's mercy. That is why we must base our answer on what we KNOW rather than how we FEEL. In fact, perhaps a truly in-tune believer will never feel like he is saved? If we ever did, would we have a pride problem?
Just some thoughts to chew on... have a good one.
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Wednesday, April 25, 2007
Tonight I will finish my Gospel Meeting at the Second Creek Church of Christ in Tennessee. I have really enjoyed being with such kind and attentive brethren. I am always reminded that God's people truly are the best people in the world. What a blessing it is to have known so many of you through the years!
I could tell a hundred stories of how brethren have impacted my life for the better. One brother's stern warning motivated me to finish preaching school. One sister's timely notes of encouragement helped me press on when I needed it most. I have been shown mercy when I didn't deserve it, love when I was unlovable, and kindness when I wasn't kind. God's people have been a lifeline for me through the years. Thank you all!!!
When in your life has a brother or sister made a profound influence that helped to chart your course in life. Email me your stories (please make them somewhat brief) and I will include some of them in future blogs. Send them to kerry@sherrodfamily.org
Have a blessed day
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Tuesday, April 24, 2007
Pray, pray, pray for Lenora and I... today is our daughter Reann's thirteenth birthday. The teen years are upon us!
I was thinking this morning about how we change through life. Lately I have found that things come up that would have "blown me out of the water" a few years back, but that I now "take with a grain of salt." Why is this? I don't remember any event that stands out that might have caused the change. It has come on very gradually... so gradually that I didn't even notice. For me, there is a lesson to be learned in all of this. I have asked God to mature me and mold me, but never really considered that he had answered the prayer. Then, I realize that He's answered me, and I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW IT! My, the Lord works in mysterious ways.
Maybe I'll now learn to be more patient with my prayers. Are you giving Him the time to answer yours???
Have a great day.
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Monday, April 23, 2007
Makin' History... Saturday we went with some friends to the A-Day game @ Alabama. Who knew it would be the largest attendance at any such event (spring game) in history... over 92,000 fans.
Yesterday I started a Gospel Meeting @ the Second Creek Church of Christ up in Hardin County Tennessee. It has been very good so far and they have had a number of visitors. Pray that we continue to have a good meeting.
On Friday I had one of the rare days when I had a great many things to get done, ended up putting them off, and then got them all finished in record time. The only miserable thing about the day was the anxiety about not finishing, which was completely misplaced. But isn't that always true about worry? What does it ever accomplish? It NEVER changes the outcome! All of the stress only makes us miserable, but does nothing to fix the problem. In essence, worry is the most ridiculous and hollow emotion of all. Then... why is it so hard to stop???
Have a worry-free day!
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Tuesday, April 17, 2007
Do you have your taxes in yet? If not, you'd better get that extension in the mail.
Don't forget the "No Debt, No Sweat" seminar coming in just 2 weeks to Sherrod Avenue. It will help you get "back in the black!"
As everyone was getting ready this morning, we were discussing something and Lenora said, "It's a constant battle." With those few wise words, I think she hit upon the essence of what much of life is... it's a struggle to persevere... a struggle to ENDURE.
Perhaps that is why God made us such social beings? As a community we should be helping each other to finish the race, and when one stumbles, two more grab his arms and help him move forward. And won't crossing the finish line TOGETHER be worth all the struggle?
Let's struggle on together.
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Monday, April 16, 2007
It's set in stone... we're Arena Football fans! Well... at least Seth and I are. We all went shopping Friday in Huntsville for the girl's birthdays and then went to a Tennessee Valley Vipers game. They lost miserably, but the experience was great. It is like no other football- it's fast paced and you can see everything... even from the cheap seats!
Another treat was the arrival of Cliff and Cindy Pogue, some great friends from the church in Meridian Idaho where I used to preach. We had a great time and they left this morning for home.
Next Sunday Kenny Barfield will be preaching at Sherrod Avenue as I will be preaching a Gospel Meeting in Tennessee.
I was thinking this morning about God's blessings, and how abundantly He gives to us in spite of our undeserving lives. Romans 6:23 says, "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life." Paul deliberately contrasts what we deserved with what God gives. This directly contradicts the "cause and effect" attitude we (ok... maybe "I") often have about God's blessings. The whole point is that we get what we DON'T deserve, no what we DO. So why do we often stand amazed at God's blessings toward such weak people as ourselves? It shouldn't surprise us- such is the essence of GRACE.
I hope your week starts out great.
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Wednesday, April 11, 2007
Today is my wife's birthday... I won't tell you how many. She's still looking good to me!
Self-discipline is a difficult thing to master. I have always been pretty disciplined, but sometimes I get into a slump and it's hard to fix. I really feel sorry for the people who were NEVER taught any self-discipline... in many ways they were cheated. One famous quote says,
"The world belongs to the disciplined." How true is that? What can replace hard work and steady faithfulness? Nothing in all the world! Perhaps the greatest gift we can give our children is the gift of self-discipline?
With this in mind, let me recommend the classic book, "The Disciplined Life" by Richard S. Taylor. It is a fabulous read.
Have a super day.
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Tuesday, April 10, 2007
April... the month of sweet birthdays and empty wallets (mine)! We have 4 birthdays in April at our house: Lenora's, Reann's, Reagan's, and my Mom's. It seems that if you are a Williams' female, you MUST be born in April!
As we assembled for our Karate class at the building last night, I saw the elders making their way into the conference room like they do every Monday. The hours they put in are long, and I know they give up so much of their family time to serve us. They have to make hard decisions which are often unappreciated, and EVERY decision they make rubs SOMEBODY the wrong way. The reality is- it is a somewhat thankless job that our shepherds perform with EXCELLENCE and real LOVE!
When was the last time you thanked them? Have you ever sent them a note or gave them a hug and just said, "Thanks for all you do?"
Write that note today.
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Monday, April 9, 2007
We had some friends come visit from California over the weekend- Hugh and Soffie Metzler. It was great to see them again. Hugh accompanied Seth and I, along with the "Band of Brothers Ministry" to the Shiloh battlefield on Saturday. It was a good time of fellowship and history. But so sad... 20,000 Americans died there those two days back in 1862... all because of disunity.
I understand that more Americans died in the Civil War than all other American wars (except WWII) combined. Isn't that ironic... we lost more men fighting each other ONCE, than we have fighting our enemies NINE TIMES (Revolutionary, 1812, Mexican, Spanish American, WWI, Korea, Vietnam, Persian Gulf, Iraq)! Doesn't this vividly prove God's instructions that in-fighting and disunity will destroy His people? Couldn't this be the very reason the church is often declining in membership, while increasing in the number of congregations... simply because we are "splitting???"
Make an effort to "get along" today.
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Wednesday, April 4, 2007
Today will be my last blog until next Monday. Tomorrow I will be given the honor of leading the opening prayer for the Alabama House of Representatives in Montgomery. I am very excited (even though it will be a VERY early morning). Joey Krieger, our worship minister, will be riding down with me. I am so grateful for his company. He and Kelly have been such good friends and he does an outstanding job of leading our worship.
Because of tomorrow, I have more to do today than I can get to. Therefore, I'll wrap up this blog and bid you farewell until Monday. Those of you who read the blog regularly- please drop me a short email and let me know (kerry@sherrodfamily.org). I am curious how many people this is reaching?
God bless you all.
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Tuesday, April 3, 2007
As we all have more irons in the fire than we can possibly manage, time becomes our most coveted possession. But what is ironic, is that I often do not ENJOY the thing I value most for anxiety of what I have yet to do. I long for a little "down time" but then can't relax when I have some. How ridiculous is that?
I have tried lately to just slow down- just to breathe deeply and concentrate on the task at hand in a steady and controlled way, without thinking about what I still have yet to do. Sometimes it has helped... sometimes it hasn't. But it does seem to be a step in the right direction.
I'm hoping you have an anxiety-free day.
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Monday, April 2, 2007
What an awesome weekend! Lenora and I attended the Mars Hill benefit dinner on Friday night and really enjoyed Guy Doud (the guest speaker) and the chorus presentation. Then, on Saturday night we attended the Mars Hill Basketball/Cheerleading banquet at Crosspoint Church of Christ where Reann and many of her friends received their certificates & awards for the season.
But the weekend highlight was the KARATE TOURNAMENT in Hartselle Alabama on Saturday. There were hundreds of competitors there. Reann, Reagan, Seth and Sara Maner competed and brought home SEVEN TROPHIES! Reann took 1st in fighting and 3rd in forms. Reagan took 3rd in Musical Forms. Seth (pictured to the left in yellow) took 2nd in forms and 2nd in fighting. And Sara Maner was the breakaway winner with 1st place in both forms and fighting! It was a SUPER day and I am so proud of all of these kids. This was our very first tournament and they didn't know what to expect, but they showed courage and determination. All four are real CHAMPIONS!
Have a super week.
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Thursday, March 29, 2007
I hope you are all having a great week. Mine has been very busy. I'm beginning a new series this coming Sunday night on "Heaven" and have been preparing all week. The annual Mars Hill (www.mhbs.org) benefit dinner is tomorrow night, and Lenora and I plan to attend. Also, we have a north Alabama karate tournament on Saturday that the kids have been training for. No less that 2 months of hard work have went into the effort. I hope they all do wonderful!
Seth and I have never been to an arena football game and I understand that Huntsville has a team. We are thinking about trying it out. If any of you have ever attended one, please email me (kerry@sherrodfamily.org) and let me know what you think. Will die hard football fans like it? Where are the best seats? Please let me know if you have any input.
For all of you Sherrod folks, please be putting August 16-18 on your schedule. We are having an EXCITING event called "Renewal" that will serve as our gospel meeting for 2007 and also as a service to Florence area congregations. We are bringing in 2 nationally known speakers and also using some local preachers on Saturday. It will be a real spiritual feast! Please mark the dates and plan to be here Thursday night, Friday night, and all day Saturday.
Have a fabulous weekend.
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Tuesday, March 27, 2007
We had an adventure over the weekend camping in Mississippi. First, we got lost in Lauderdale County (people should really learn the road numbers rather than saying things like "take ole cottonpatch road"). We got there and rode motorcycles and I rode a horse for the first time since my childhood... and I fell off... VERY HARD (I even have the wound to prove it). But overall it was a great time with family and dear friends from church.
Have you noticed how most every crisis seems so trivial with the passing of time? Just recently I was stressing about a deadline and what "might happen." Then, in just a few days, after it had all worked out, I thought, "Why was I so upset about THAT?" Perhaps, through maturity, we can come to the point that we realize, "This too will pass," even in the moment of crisis.
I certainly hope to someday. Have a super Tuesday.
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Wednesday, March 21, 2007
This will be my last blog until Monday. We are going camping in Mississippi with some folks from church tomorrow through Saturday (Well... sort of camping... we have an RV with a shower, AC, and microwave). We plan to do a little motorcycle riding, horseback riding, and maybe a little golf. But the greatest part of camping to me is the nostalgia. We have scrapbooks full of camping pictures with our kids from the time they were babies. I always get a little "teary eyed" when I look at those pictures and think about how fast they are growing up.
How has your prayer life been lately? Prayer is one area of my spirituality that I always feel is lacking. I never feel quite like I pray enough. The frequency of my prayers certainly couldn't be categorized as "without ceasing." But I have seen some improvement. Lately I have noticed that I quickly pray during tense moments much more often than I used to. This encourages me. Maybe someday I'll at least begin to resemble the man I hope I can become!
Have a great weekend.
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Tuesday, March 20, 2007
Today an old man taught me a powerful lesson about life!
I went to visit him in the hospital and was taken back when our conversation was constantly interrupted by nurses and hospital staff that "found a reason" to come by his room. At nearly 90 years old he was laughing and telling jokes. He gave every nurse a hard time and then laughed to let her know he was just teasing. His spirit was addicting. Everyone just wanted to be there with him. People in the hallway even listened in as he spun his humorous tales. After an hour I had to leave... but I didn't want to!
What is most amazing is that we spoke of pain, suffering, and how bad the world is becoming... even loved ones who were hurting. This man doesn't live in a fantasy world of laughs and roses. He is a realist, yet he still faces all the ugliness with a joke and a smile!
When I got to my car I prayed, "God, help me to be a man like that... to see life that way." Yes, I learned a powerful lesson about how to defeat life and its pain... through hope!!!
Share a smile and a joke with someone today.
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Monday, March 19, 2007
What does a Christian do when deeply offended by a friend? What if the friend doesn't know he has given offense? The choices are to confront or forget. Neither option seems very appropriate in the moment
Recently I was hurt by some "general" statements made by a friend that I felt were directed at me. Although I saw his point, I felt they were unfair and overly charged with animosity. They struck at the heart of who I am, and hurt VERY deeply. My friend jumped to conclusions without knowing the facts.
I love my friend... DEARLY. I respect him and forgive him for any hurt he caused through thoughtless comments. I will never bring it up to him. I suppose these situations are what prove that Christian relationships are truly special because of our common Lord that binds us together.
Have a great day.
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Wednesday, March 14, 2007
Today is the annual reoccurrence of one of the greatest days in my life. 15 years ago today, Lenora and I said "I do"... and we STILL DO.
It is strange to me how, as time moves on, anniversaries become more meaningful but with less fanfare. We don't give big gifts anymore.., the kids are just too expensive these days. But "our day" is less about that now. Now we just enjoy each other's company. I guess that "Old Love" really is the BEST love!
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Tuesday, March 13, 2007
Last night we had a long Karate class as we prepared for a tournament we are participating in at
the end of March. The class is doing very well and I think our kids will do great.
I have been reading a book that has been very good. It is entitled "Objects of His Affection" by Scotty Smith. The subject matter addresses God's intense love for man and the need for us to embrace and open up to that love. Although there are a few things in the book I could not recommend, it was overall very encouraging to me.
How big is God's love? How can we even begin to understand a love that sacrifices so much- a love that is patient with so much? Perhaps we cannot fully ever understand it... we need to simply accept it!
Have a blessed day.
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Monday, March 12, 2007
I feel much better today. Since last Thursday I've been "under the weather" with cold-like symptoms. I hate being sick!
My dear friend and brother Jonathan Paulson was in over the weekend and we had a blast together. He plays wide-receiver for Harding University and is a super young man.
I really don't have any jewels of wisdom to impart today (ha... like my blog is ever profound!). I just know that yesterday was our 52nd Sunday at Sherrod Avenue, and we are very happy to be here. You have all treated our family with such kindness and made our first year wonderful.
Thanks so much.
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Wednesday, March 7, 2007
As I typed today's date above, I finished with "2006" (then I caught the mistake). Am I the only person still doing that? You'd think that by March I would catch on.
The other day my son and I were riding home together and he started asking me those deep theological questions that only a seven-year-old can put into words. "Why doesn't God just save everybody if He loves everybody?" "Why doesn't God destroy all the bad people?" But one in particular was very challenging to me. He asked, "Daddy, if we are supposed to tell everybody about God, then why don't we just do it?" I answered, "Son... we are trying to." His reply: "No we aren't Dad... we go home every night and play video games or watch tv!"
Wow... out of the mouth of babes!
I pray God will give us more of the simple spirit of our children!
Try to learn something profound from your kids today.
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Tuesday, March 6, 2007
Some people are easily moved by music. I am one of them. I can listen to a new song about something dear to my heart- family, wife, kids, church, God- and I could end up with tear-tracked cheeks! Songs like "I loved her first," and "I'll wait for you," get me every time.
Yesterday I heard a new song called "things that last" by the group "Heartland." It caused me to reflect upon my marriage which will strike the 15 year mark in just 8 days. It has been a good life- far better that I deserve- but both Lenora and I would readily say that it hasn't always been easy. But then again, nothing worthwhile ever is!
One thing that has helped us has been a shared commitment. We have NEVER threatened each other with divorce. It just isn't an option. We have made a covenant... be we happy or miserable... and we are determined to keep it. You see, that unshakable reality gave us a powerful motivation to get along and find happiness... If we are going to be together NO MATTER WHAT, then we had better make that existence as painless as possible!
Have a great day.
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Thursday, March 1, 2007
ARRGGG.... FRRRUUSSTTTRRAAATTTIIONNNN!!!!!!!
Sorry... just gotta let it out sometimes. Three weeks ago I had my refrigerator fixed and last night... you guessed it... it's broke again. This time I need to buy a new one. Oh well, who needs a $1000 anyway???
"Rejoice in the Lord always... Rejoice in the Lord always... Rejoice in the Lord ALWAYS... REJOICE IN THE LORD ALWAYS!!!!"
Ok. I feel better already.
I hope you have a great day.
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Wednesday, February 28, 2007
I received a call last night from my good friend Dan in Idaho. He is one of the deacons of the Linder Road Church of Christ and has remained a dear friend to me since we moved from there in 2001. I have always appreciated the honest spirituality I see in him, and how he challenges me to grow in my faith.
Dan... thanks for being my friend and reinforcing the truth, "Friend are friends forever if the Lord's the Lord of them!"
Take time to call or email an old friend today. You'll be glad you did.
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Tuesday, February 27, 2007
Have you ever started a day slowly and had trouble "getting into the groove" for the rest of the day? How about a whole week? That's how it was last week for me. The holiday threw my "rhythm" off and I couldn't seem to get my week together after that. But... today is tuesday of a new week and ALL IS GOING GREAT!
Do you feel good about your prayer life? I never do. Although I have steadily become more prayerful through the years, I never feel like I rely upon the Father enough. The completeness of the command to "pray without ceasing" seems like an unreachable goal. You see, I'm a "fixer"... I see problems and take action to resolve them. Therefore I'm USED to relying upon my own creativity and initiative to get things done. I have come to realize that this may be a detriment to my prayer life. I'm so accustomed to doing things myself that I don't naturally lay problems before Him. I will often pray AFTER I've already worked on the problem. Where is the faith in that? Where is the trust?
Well... I'm working on it... AGAIN! Are you working on your prayer life? Is it a priority to you?
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Monday, February 26, 2007
We played our last 1st and 2nd grade Mars Hill Jr. Pro basketball game Saturday and lost again (the sixth time... 0-6 for the year). Our excuse... shorter players, and... bad coaching??? Oh well, the kids had a good time and Seth really developed as a player. There is always next year for winning.
I have a funeral later today which will make four within three weeks. I appreciate being able to help comfort families in their grief, but always feel like Jesus in John 11 when I see the pain in people's lives. It wasn't supposed to be this way. God made us to live! On days like today I grow in my hatred of Satan... someday... all will be made right... He will get his!!!
Keep your faith today and consider the question Jesus asked Martha, "I am the resurrection and the life... Do you believe this?"
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Thursday, February 22, 2007
Discouragement... is so... discouraging!
What does a believer do when circumstances become so very frustrating? I have given dozens of answers through the years. Rely upon faith... pour out your heart in prayer... turn it over to God... all of these are good suggestions. But even though I know these solutions and many more, in the moment of discouragement it is much easier to SAY these things, than to BELIEVE them. When your heart is aching in your chest with discouragement and you just want to quit, it is very difficult just to just lay it all down.
But we must. And this is a lesson I am learning.
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Wednesday, February 21, 2007
Sorry I haven't blogged in a few days. The holiday and a busy Tuesday got in the way.
Last night we (Me,Seth, Reagan, and one of her friends) attended the UNA B-Ball game vs. Western Georgia. Our seats were on the front row (thanks to some kind friends)... it was very exciting. The girls were dressed up in cheer attire and were given the "pizza prize" by the UNA cheerleaders. It was a blast. Poor Lenora was at a "pampered-chef" party instead (I'm sure she would say "poor Kerry").
Relationships are a vast ocean with calm, sunny beaches and devastating hurricanes. But they are also very, very deep in parts and shallow in others. The metaphorical comparisons have no end. So what advice do we give people who are sailing out into the "big wide blue?" How do we navigate? The only reasonable answer is... VERY CAREFULLY! But we must never forget that the joy of the sea is always worth a storm now and then!
Enough musing... have a good one.
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Thursday, February 15, 2007
Yesterday was sweetheart day. I spent the whole day thinking about mine. In 30 days from now we will hit the 15 year mark, and it has been a glorious ride. We have had good times and not so good, peaks and valleys... But what an adventure we have shared together! Oregon... Idaho... California... Texas... ALABAMA... three kids... churches from 50 to 500... beat up cars... business meetings & elderships... apartments & drafty rentals to our first home... no one can say we haven't seen it all together.
Thank you baby for a great run! There could never be another partner like you! You will always be my best friend.
If you failed to tell your valentine how much you love him/her, remember, you're only one day behind!!!
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Wednesday, February 14, 2007
This coming Sunday morning I will be preaching about "Real Manhood" and discussing the responsibility for male spiritual leadership. Many of my thoughts for the lesson were born from my reading of a fabulous book called "Raising a Modern-Day Knight" by Robert Lewis. The book addresses the need to raise courageous and honorable men, and gives some radical but visionary suggestions to fathers raising sons. If you men are raising boys, this book is a "must have."
Another great book on this topic is "Wild at Heart" by John Eldridge, which is one of my favorite of all time.
We need "real men" today more than ever. The qualities of biblical manhood are being attacked on every front. It is time the church encouraged our guys to stand up and "Be A MAN!"
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Tuesday, February 13, 2007
When people are hurting, it is always hard for me to have a good day. Such is the case today. Some people I care for are hurting, and it is very difficult for me to distance myself from their pain. I suppose that empathy isn't something that can be "turned on and off."
"When one shares a heartache... we all shed a tear... because we're part of the family... a family so near. I'm so glad I'm a part of the family of God..." - Well-known Hymn
"Bear one anothers burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ" - Paul
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Monday, February 12, 2007
My weekend was spent with our Shepherds and other Evangelists at a retreat in Pickwick, TN. We had a wonderful time talking about "dreams" and imagining a glorious future for Sherrod Ave. We laughed and enjoyed each other. I feel so privileged to work with godly men.
Seth's ball team lost their 4th game. I'm starting to think it's the coach (guess who...).
Our Bible class came to our house after worship last night and we played "scattergories" together. I am saddened that I will be transfering out to teach another class in March (although I'm sure we'll enjoy that class as well). Fellowship is a sweet, sweet blessing.
Well, so much for the life update.
I was thinking earlier today about communication, and how difficult it is to truly understand each other sometimes. We are so quick to make assumptions. We assume we know what another person believes and why, without every really listening to them. I think a lot of church problems are because of this. Maybe we need to be "quick to listen?" It seems that I read that wise instruction somewhere...!!!
Open your ears a little more today.
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Wednesday, February 7, 2007
This has been a long but rewarding week. Sherrod Ave is having the annual ministers/elders retreat this weekend and we will be sharing dreams for the future. I am very excitied. The scriptures promise that God can do "more than we ask or imagine." Perhaps we simply don't "imagine" big enough!!!
We had 4 new students start karate monday and I finished my video belt test for my personal instructor back in Texas. The class is really growing.
I have written for a small publication called "Power for Today" since last year and would like to recommend it to you. It is a daily devotional that is published every quarter and has short, one page devotionals to start your day. The website is www.powerfortoday.com. I believe the subscription price is currently only $10 per year.
Be safe and happy today.
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Monday, February 5, 2007
We had a busy weekend starting with "Family Fun Night" at the building of Friday. We watched "Facing the Giants." You have to see this movie! It was produced by a church and only included 5 paid actors (so I've heard), but it was wonderful. On Saturday we had Seth's B-ball game (we lost again but Seth made 7 points) and his birthday party at the skatecenter. Then there were our two services yesterday, a funeral and b-ball practice in the afternoon, and a superbowl party at some friends after pm church. Wow... maybe I need to take a minute and rest!
In the midst of all the activity, I got an email from my oldest and dearest friend... my brother-in-law, Derek. It was just one of those "haven't talked in a while... I love you" emails, but it hit me just right. My mind flooded with precious memories of carefree days. It was wonderful. There is just no substitute for history! No we both preach on opposite ends of the country (he works with the chruch of Christ in Turlock CA. http://www.turlockchurchofchrist.org/main/index.html) and he has been married to my sister for 14 years, but whenever we are together I am transported back to 1987 and trying to pass our drivers tests (he did the 1st time... it took me 3) or 1990 in college together at OCU. There truly are "no firends like old friends."
If you have any old friends you need to contact, let them know you're thinking about them today. It will bless them and you.
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Thursday, February 1, 2007
I awoke this morning to an excited house of kids. It seems that schools in Alabama will cancel school for even a touch of snow (very different from our experiences in Idaho). Therefore I stayed home a little later than usual to enjoy them.
I would like to recommend the blog of a dear friend of mine- Jim Gardner. Jim preaches for the Woodward Park Church of Christ in Fresno California where my dad used to preach. I count Jim as a dear friend and believe him to be one of the most talented young preachers in the brotherhood today. Stop by his blog at http://jimgardner.blogspot.com/
Let me also recommend a book that I recently purchased- "Old Light on New Worship" by John Price. Price is a Baptist preacher who has studied the issue of Instrumental Music and, as a result, wrote this book as a defense for Acappella music in worship. I have not completely finished it but have been intrigued so far.
Have a fabulous weekend.
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Wednesday, January 31, 2007
Wow... yesterday was busy for me. I had 3 meetings to plan church events and did some visitation. Last night we ate at Mars Hill to benefit the Germany mission team and then attended a senior-high girls B-Ball game (they barely lost... so sad). What a busy but fulfilling life!
I am so very exciting for the future here. In helping plan for both Sherrod Ave and Heritage Christian University, I see a great future in store for God's kingdom here in Florence. Here are a few of the upcoming events:
Steve Diggs "No Debt No Sweat" Financial Workshop
"Renewal" - A Spiritual Event for Florence Christians hosted by Sherrod Ave in August
HCU's "Big Event" at the Marriott Conference Center on Aug. 25th www.hcu.edu
HCU's Annual Workshop in Sept. which looks to be the best EVER!
I hope you will all plan to participate in all of these exciting events.
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Monday, January 29, 2007
I had a great time in Lubbock at the SIBI workshop. The highlights for me were my dad, Stan Williams' powerful class on evangelism, and John Smith's classes on Instrumental Music. They were both powerful and thoughtful. I encourage you to order copies from Sunset at www.sibi.cc.
Seldom do I lose my temper anymore. When I was younger I did a lot, but the Lord has matured me a great deal in that area. But, to my shame, the "old me" still comes out sometimes. Recently I lost my temper at someone I dearly love. I shouted and screamed, and said some hurtful things I did not mean... lies that were not true. I have felt so ashamed! This beloved one forgave me (of course), but I haven't forgotten. I felt so corrupted and vile knowing that a thousand apologies can never make ugly words be "unsaid."
When we are faced with our own shame, we have only two options- allow it to cripple us, or to motivate us to do better. The shame, called "godly sorrow" in scripture, is a powerful source of repentance. It makes us NEVER want to do the shameful thing again. It causes us to PASSIONATELY hate our sin. I intend to NEVER speak to my loved one that way again... and it is because of that vile shame. Thank God for a guilty conscience!
Don't let any shame break you today... use it to change!
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Monday, January 22, 2007
Tomorrow I leave for Lubbock Texas and the Sunset International Bible Institute's annual workshop. You can read more about it at http://www.sibi.cc. I graduated from there in 1994 and it is very exciting to go back. My dad will also be there and I will get to "pal around" with him which is always a highlight.
Jack Reece did a super job for us yesterday preaching on evangelism. We are trying to build a strong local evangelism program, but it is truly a challenging thing. Where do we start? How do we get contacts? These are just the beginning of a multitude of questions with answers that seem to elude us. Please pray that God will open the doors for us and help us to follow the paths that He lights for us.
Sherrod Avenue... We love you. Have a wonderful day.
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Wednesday, January 17, 2007
As I often tell my kids, the world is... unfair.
There are so many things in life that are not equal. People take advantage of situations. Others are masters at manipulating every situation to their advantage. Some abuse the privileges they are given. Through it all the honest and conscientious watch with utter frustration! Why do they do such things, and more importantly... Why do the get away with it???
Solomon addressed many of these very concerns in Ecclesiastes. He talks of the wicked being blessed while the righteous suffers, and that the hard worker must leave the fruit of his labor to a lazy son. Where is the fairness? Simply put... there isn't any. This world is unfair, but the good news is that God will one day make every wrong right.
Take heart in that.
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Tuesday, January 16, 2007
Yesterday was the MLK holiday and my kids enjoyed an extra day home for a long weekend. I believe that the holiday is a noble and needed thing. Racism may not be overt any longer, even here in Alabama, but it is still a very constant reality in our society. People still have trouble trusting and relating to others based upon the pigmentation of their skin, and it is a problem that affects everyone- blacks, whites, Asians, Latinos- every group has their own unique problems with racism.
What do we do about it? If history has taught us anything it is that these problems take a long time to resolve. Most would agree that things are better now than they were, and they will likely be better tomorrow than they are today. We just all need to do what we can TODAY and look toward an improved TOMORROW.
Have a great day.
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Monday, January 15, 2007
Friday night Lenora and I went to Huntsville for her Christmas present. We ate at Ruth's Chris steakhouse and went to see a play called "the Producers." I recommend the eating establishment (once in a while... the bill almost gave me a coronary) but not the play. The "adult content" was just too much. The sad thing is that they could've done without it and still had a great show. Oh well... such is show business and the world we live in.
My first practice as coach of Seth's 1st and 2nd grade junior-pro baskeball team was yesterday. It should be... fun.
As Lenora was telling me about all of the children's activities yesterday, I was extremely impressed by the humility of one of my daughter's friends. When given the perfect opportunity to brag, the boy simply downplayed his own accomplishments and changed the subject. How rare is that kind of attitude? Kids and adults alike often look for opportunities to point out our accomplishments. We all seek to feed our insecurities by convincing others (and in the process ourselves) that we are special. What a fine example that young man is to us all.
Lets all try to take the humble road today.
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Wednesday, January 10, 2007
I just finished a book entitled "The Real Heaven" by Joe Beam. It was... unique. He looked at heaven from a very fresh perspectives and did challenge my thinking on some things, but he also took some guesswork to a fairly far-fetched extreme. However, with the exception of the ridiculous chapter on animals going to heaven, I would recommend it to mature readers.
We are getting closer to our evangelism seminar on the 21st-23rd with Jack Reece. I hope he can light a fire here for personal evangelism. We need it. I need it! The need to share my faith is always at the back of my mind, lurking... ready to convict my heart whenever I will allow it to.
Joey Krieger is also bringing back the "Friday Night Fun" this friday (the 12th) at the building. We really need more times for fellowship and I know it will be a great time. Lenora and I will have to miss out - we'll be in Huntsville at a play (Lenora's Christmas present).
Have a good day.
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Tuesday, January 9, 2007
Our karate had a great first night back after the holiday break as 3 students tested for their next belts yesterday. I attended a few minutes of Reagan's geography bee at Mars Hill this morning. She was so nervous. How do you study for something when questions could be over the whole world? I'm sure she'll do well. The big news from yesterday... NO MORE BASKETBALL (therefore no more CHEER). Mars Hill lost in their last game at the Central tournament last night ending their season. What a bitter-sweet relief... more nights at home! It has been a fun season though.
My thoughts this morning have been centered upon the frustration of not having answers for life's problems. We always want to fix problems... take away the pain in people's lives. But sometimes we just can't! We care and invest time and energy, but still people suffer. Such is the state of our fallen world. We all are going to suffer disappointment and hurt. Don't you just despise Satan? One day... he'll get what he deserves for all he has done to others!
Well, enough musing for today. Have a fine, grace-filled day.
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Monday, January 8, 2007
Our weekend consisted of honey-dos and ballgames. All of the Christmas stuff is stored for another 11 months and we realized yesterday that all the food from Christmas (leftovers and the like) is running out. Back to life as usual.
I did a lot of serious thinking and praying about biblical things this weekend. Some of my beliefs were recently challenged and I was forced to re-study some things I haven't looked closely at in many years. It is so much easier just to ignore things that make us uncomfortable... to stick our heads in the sand and stay the way we've always been without being able to defend it. But "comfort" isn't really our primary concern is it? Being loyal only to the Lord and His word can be hard... especially when we are challenged. But honesty with the scriptures demand an openmindedness and constant willingness to study and go wherever the scriptures lead us. I pray that the Lord will help me to always look first to what HE desires, and ALWAYS to put His will above my own!
Have a great week.
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Thursday, January 4, 2007
Last night we had a good Bible class about the "Sword of the Spirit" (ie. Word of God). There was a great deal of discussion and almost everyone agreed that today we have much less knowledge than we once did. To follow the imagery of Ephesians, we are soldier who have lost our sword!
You may be surprised to hear that I even feel that I myself am guilty of this. Oh yes, my job certainly demands a high level of competence in regard to the scriptures, but I still feel woefully inadequate. To study for a sermon, class, or article comes naturally, but to just sit down and let God speak to me through His Word is difficult. I just have trouble finding the time. When I do open the text I catch myself looking for outlines rather than just listening. Pray for me that God will "sharpen my sword," and I will return the favor.
Have a blessed day... and don't forget your "sword."
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Wednesday, January 3, 2007
Shopping... Aaaaaaaaarrrrrrgggg!
Last night Lenora "persuaded" me to go shopping with her and the kids so we all could spend the gift cards we got for Christmas. After 1 1/2 hours in the "torture center of all men" (ie. Target), we finally made it to one of the only redeeming institutions of the American shopping culture... Best Buy. And oh did I find a deal... a $200 portable DVD player marked down to $100, with a $60 gift card because it was an open-box item! A little quick math and I was checking out... who could beat a deal like that!
Reflecting on this makes me realize that I am the "King of good deals." It's not because I'm a great shopper (yea right!), but the evidence is in my life. I have a beautiful wife who is a much better person that I deserve to be loved by. I have three precious kids who admire me even though I don't usually deserve it. I have been blessed to work for God in spite of my shortcomings. And most of all... I have been saved from my sins and I've NEVER PAID THE PRICE!
I suspect that, upon inspection of your life, you will find that you are a "King of good deals" too!
Praise be to Christ who paid the price so we could have so much.
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Tuesday, January 2, 2007
Yesterday we all just sat around the house (well... more like "laid around")... it was WONDERFUL! There is nothing quite like a day with nothing to do... no pressure, no stress... just relaxation and family. But today it's back to the grind. School will start again tomorrow and we'll get right back to our hectic schedule.
Raising kids (especially as they move into the teenage years) gives parents a crash course on the value and preciousness of time (not to mention gasoline!). We are always running here or there... ballgames, karate, or youth activities... it's always something. One of my goals this year is not to necessarily slow it all down (that probably isn't possible) but to endure it with more patience. I tend to get so tense about the schedule. Why? I'm not sure... maybe the deep-seated desire for a break... a little rest. This year I want to lay aside the anxiousness and be like Jesus. He was never in a hurry. He always showed patience even when those around Him were losing their minds.
I pray the Lord will give me a small dose of His spirit.
Have a blessed beginning for 2007!